
From the editor:
This article is something that can really hits home, it has happened to each and everyone one of us on numerous occasions. I also want to say that there are many, many retail store owners and counter folks that are kind, sweet and helpful. We are not focusing on them today for a reason, instead we are focusing on the uncomfortable situations, so that we can learn from their mistakes. So even though it may sound harsh to be reminded of the rudeness of some counter reps and other customer service reps…. there is a happy ending, we have some “how-to’s in regards to good customer service and it ends with all of us…with one huge Thank you!
by Contributing Columnist Kimberly Barnes aka TeaTowelCreek and Editor, Susan Rosen
“Teach this triple truth to all: A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.” Buddha
This morning I was at a local store buying some juice for my son and during my transaction the girl behind the counter answered her cell phone and began a conversation with whom ever was on the other end. I thought it was very rude and unprofessional to say the least. She continued her phone call during and after my transaction with no Thank you to follow.
After I left the store I pondered upon this topic and felt it would be a good information to pass on to the readers of Indiesmiles.
My mind automatically started to think back to other times when I myself have received, what I felt to be, bad customer service at many area stores. This is only my account, I’m sure that everyone has seen or have been in these very uncomfortable situations:
Counter reps that huff and puff and roll their eyes at me when I have asked for something behind the counter.
Or they have talked to other employees and made to wait until their conversation was finished
Then, and worse of all, witnessed an employee yelling at a customer for no reason whatsoever. This is so heart breaking, because I know the person receiving the abuse was hurt and embarrassed.
Whew, I’ve really have seen the bad side of some people in the service and retail industry. It’s unnerving. Not that I want to bring all the readers of Indiesmiles down today…I just want to alert all of us all, so that we know how it feels to be on the receiving end of such behavior. I doubt that we have ever treated our customers in such a horrid manner.
It’s just that I’ve witnessed certain retail shop owners, customer service reps and other employees and sometimes owners that just don’t know the correct etiquette for effective Customer Service. And it happens frequently.
But in order to have you smile today, I want to take these experiences, pass them along and then learn from them. We can then say ahhhh that wasn’t nice and learn from it.
As with any job that involves working with the public even by owning our own online stops ” great” customer service is one of the key elements to success!
How can we leave a customer feeling warm and fuzzy about our shop and wanting to return again and again?
Here are some simple tips that we all can benefit from:
Responding quickly to emails, sending a thank you to a customer, giving positive feedback after the transaction, shipping out the item quickly and letting the customer know that the item has been shipped and by contacting them and letting them know you are there for them will keep them coming back to your shop.
If there is a problem and your customer wants a return, or has a complaint, it’s almost imperative that we treat them with respect and know that we can solve it with out any problem.

But lets say there is a “problem” and the customer emails us with that situation: This is when the true test of customer service comes forth!
Perhaps you can thank them for letting you know (a thank you means so much!), then go ahead and help by solving the problem. It may be that you might need to return their money, or give a partial refund, make them a new replacement product, or send one that is already in stock.
Whatever the circumstances, I have found that most customer service issues that arises with the following 3 Fs, they are called Feel, Felt, Found. What is that you say? Well, it’s simple. Tell the customer that you know how they feel, as you have felt the same way in the past (perhaps tell a story of something that happened to you in the past) and you found that if………… (you fill in the rest as to how the problem was solved and how you are going to solve their problem).
So lets use an example, lets say that you offer jewelry in your shop. A customer purchases a necklace that they adore. The necklace is sent through the mail (you had thought) and never arrives. The customer emails you and the email, well it’s fairly strong. She wants to know where her necklace is, after all you had told her you shipped her order! Now this particular problem could have been easily solved if you use USPS tracking system, but this is just an example of how to handle customer service problems, solving shipping issues and researching other shipping avenues would be a whole article in itself.
You realize that the necklace was never mailed (your children were playing, you were somewhat distracted while packaging up orders…and you thought you mailed it!) and it’s now close to a month since the customer ordered the item. Here is how you could use the Feel, Felt Found scenario.
The customer is upset, they wanted the product 3 weeks ago and writes you a somewhat strong email, so you can write an return email and say the following:
Hi there (customer name)
I know how you must feel about the mistake concerning the necklace, I felt the same way when I ordered something from a shop owner in the past & I did not receive the item in a timely fashion, but what I found is that when the shop owner told me she would mail it right out with a little extra surprise gift…I was delighted.
(now this is where it’s important) Can I do the same for you to make up for my mistake?
So, remember this. A thank you goes a long way, treat the customer the way that you would want to be treated and don’t forget about the Feel, Felt, Found if you ever run into a customer service problem in your online shop!
Many thanks pic courtesy of Betty Hendrick
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